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Rule No. 1:
Keep POSITIVE support and encouragement to a maximum.
When
the players are working, they need and deserve everyone's positive
encouragement and support. They need to know you're there and their effort
is appreciated. Most teams have a tough enough time developing a sense of
teamwork and achievement. At the same time, the players are gaining
experience and skill. They do not need to hear extra anxiety piled on top
of their own when the game is going poorly. Leave your problems at the front
gate and enjoy the game.
Rule No. 2:
DO NOT DEGRADE officials or players of either team.
Critical spectators and coaches are distracting and reflect poorly on the team's
overall sportsmanship. Publicly degrading players or coaches on your team
hurts team morale. They will already have an excellent idea what their
weaknesses are from previous games. They will not need reminders from
their families, friends and other spectators. The players for the other
team are also trying hard and in truth are probably no meaner or nastier than
players from your team. Negative criticism is simply poor sportsmanship
and leads to unnecessary bad feelings on and off the field. The
unfortunate spectacle of an adult shouting insults at a child on a field will
not be tolerated at GPYAC.
Rule No. 3:
Don't coach players from the bleachers, or for that matter, while they are on
the field.
In most leagues
coaching from the bleachers is frowned upon, and rightly so. As parents
occasionally discover, a player may be doing exactly what the coaches have
instructed. Either way, a parent can help a player's athletic development
by working together with the coaches, and not independently.
Rule No. 4:
Remember, It's Only A Children's Game!
Don't forget YOUR attitude on the field can affect the mood and the success of
the team. If the coaches think that your activity is hurting team
performance in any way, they should promptly advise you. Be tolerant.
Emotions run high during games, and feelings are easily hurt. Nevertheless, any
spectator, whether parent, friend, or player who persists in inappropriate
behavior after being warned by the coaches will be asked to leave the vicinity
of the field. Coaches should not argue with parents at the game. If you
want to talk about the game, wait until the next day. Always let emotions drain
away first so that conversation among adults can be conducted on a reasonable
level rather than an emotional one.
Additional
Comments:
It is
great when parents and fans are cheering for their children, but degrading
children in any form is unacceptable. Parents and fans set an example for our
youth; be positive in your demeanor. Encourage players on both teams. If a
player on the other team makes a good play, let him know. Parents, help
your coaches. Talking to your child while he/she is on the field is ok,
but don't pull them away. The last thing the coach needs to do is look for a
player when they want to make a substitution.
REMINDING YOU THAT WE ARE HERE FOR YOUR
CHILDREN,
Tod Brainard, Program Director
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